being ourselves

We can now safely state that walking your path is not about the path itself but about the person that walks that path. Now that we know this we still know nothing (and we never will). But in our realm of limited understanding, we can still try to grasp at what is to be understood within it. We do not know anything for if you would ask me what is real or what is not I could not answer. I only know the things I have created and those are the only things I know enough so that I could explain them to another without lying to them. The things that I have created all lie within myself, never have I created anything else out of nothing. The only thing I have ever changed is myself and even that is not a fact, for I do not know whether I was this person I am now all along. Let me get to the explaining quickly!

What we know about the world where our path lies

Let us look at what we know of our world. Do we know whether water is water? No because we only call it that, a see through liquid substance would be more certain. Do you know whether your friend Paul is your friend Paul? No because it might just be someone that looks exactly like him. Do we know what path to follow? Certainly not. Now do you know that you are you? Well, yes because you are who you are (we might be possessed by another person but then again at this moment I am who I am none the less). And do we know what we want to be like? Yes because when we know who we are, we know what this person would do as well.

Just follow the signs

The only thing we know in life is who we are ourselves. We might also know the things we want (to be(come)). We know water will not float in the air because of our previous experiences. We know Paul will keep our secret because of previous experiences as well. And even our path might be hard to walk because it had been before. But those things might change. We can change as well, but at this moment we can make the choice to be who we want to be at this moment. The person we need to get to know is our self, for we are stuck together and we decide each other’s footprint in this world.

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How to love yourself

When I look in the mirror, I want to say: hey thanks for being so handsome! Not why are you not prettier. I always want to be kind towards myself, because then it is easier for me to react in a nice way to myself. This makes life a lot less complicated. But being kind is not the level I strife for, I want to love myself. I want to look in the mirror and melt because of the look in his eyes. It is okay to love yourself, don`t worry about Justin Bieber.

How to love yourself

What are you thinking? This question is harder to answer than you think. There are thousands of thoughts racing through your mind each day. But let us make our brain a bit more of a resting place for a moment. Sit down, relax, take 3 deep breaths, and let your thoughts flow. Do not hold them back, they can be what they are for they are. Now listen to one thought at a time. When you have one thought, think about it (yes you can) is this thought negative or positive?

Reprogramming your mind

Now you have captured a thought, do not let it free yet. This thought is probably as old as you are believe it or not. It has rampaged through your head and told you the content of the very thought over and over. Now we have this thought lets change it into something positive. For example:

Example

I need to do more work today, yesterday I have done too much chilling.

This is a very negative thought, it says we need to do something, I won’t let this thought tell me what to do I decide that.

I want to do more work today, yesterday I have done too much chilling.

This is still too negative, yesterday should not even matter and chilling is good. I want to chill and do work at the same time.

I want to chill while working more today.

Let me tweak this, I want it to tell me I can do what I want and I want to do it a lot.

I want to work on my goals and have fun doing it, probably have a drink as well.

Now I let the thought free, go do your work thought see you later.

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How to walk your spirit path

When we start to grasp what a spirit path is, we can begin the search for our own path. The thing is that being alive automatically means that you are on your path. The only thing you have to do is to know that you are alive and that you can do with your life or path whatever you want. Then we can start to think about where we want our path to go. And by following this path consciously we can achieve, while we are figuring out how this thing works.

Achieving or growing

Going through life, a lot of us feel like if they set a goal and pursue that that their lives would be complete. But this would be like the tree that grows towards the sun in one thin line without enforcing its roots and trunk. This tree will probably fall down because of the wind. Now if we would go through life thinking about where we come from and what strengths those roots gave us, we would be like the strong tree. This three will be less tall, but has a way larger chance to reach the sun. I like to set a goal and grow in the direction, not set a goal and try to achieve it.

How to walk the path

The way to walk the path is really unimportant. What matters is who you are and who you want to be(come). It is about the person that walks the path, for that person will choose whether the path has any use or not. When you know the person you are, you probably do not even need a path, for you then would choose the direction you would go. Not the direction the path leads you. The path has now become the direction you walk and the purpose of who you are.

Thank you.